guys

When it comes to guys, i would rather have a virgin then a guy that's been around and slept with so many girls and think they are the "man". I would rather have a guy who's smart and outgoing and can make me laugh not some boring guy who's only goal in life is to get laid and  who is so shallow and only dates skinny, skanky,  ditsy bimbos.  Get over your self you're just a womanizing pig and nothing more.

Same sex marriage

I am completely straight and I'm all for same sex marriage, just because they are of the same sex doesn't mean they love eachother any less than a opposite sex couple. They should have as much rights as opposite sex couples when it comes to getting married, You can't help who you fall in love with and People should just back off and let them be happy with the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with. Same sex couples shouldn't have to leave their own country just to marry eachother, they should be able to get married in their home country. I am glad its becoming more legal in the U.S.A its still not completely legal there but its getting better i guess but i dont know much about that cause I'm Canadian. Where I live its legal and you don't get judged as much and people dont tell you that you are wrong as much and more people are supportive of it and are happy for them.

good deeds / selfish deeds

Just because you help out and do something good just once, doesnt mean that people are automatically gunna help you out and be nice to you if you are nasty and rude everyother day of the damn year. Just because you do a good deed it doesnt make you a saint, it doesnt make you a good person, you have to continue to do good deeds and treat people like you want to be treated and not like garbage. and do not  do the good deed just because theres something in it for you thats not how it works, thats just pure selfishness and it will get you no where in life except all alone with just yourself.

If you are nice to people even if they are nasty to you, you know youre a good person and you know who you are at the end of the day and feel good about yourself and your life and want to help people all the time just to make their lives alittle easier, thats what i would consider a good person.

Respect

Respect isnt just given to you, if you want respect you have to earn it same with trust. If you don't respect others and treat them like garbage and put them down all the time and tell them they are worthless and automatically expect them to treat you with respect and give you respect. You can't demand someone to give you respect and do nothing to earn it and when people don't, you get angry and pissed off and wonder why no one wants to be near you.

If you want someone's trust you have to prove to them you are trustworthy and never take someone's trust for granted and be the most nasty person to them or that trust and respect will be gone forever and will be every hard to get back.